Are there any dating sites no sign up required just to see who's in my area?

Started by Olivia Grant 9 replies Board: Local Dating
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Olivia Grant profile photo
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#1

Not looking for a sales pitch, just experience: dating sites no sign up required just to see who's in my area.

The frustrating part about dating sites is that the honest answers are buried in comment sections, not articles.

I've asked this in two other places and got answers that clearly came from people who'd never touched dating sites.

What would actually change my mind about dating sites:

  • Whether the matching in dating sites does anything beyond distance
  • Whether messaging on dating sites works without handing over card details
  • How dating sites handles blocking, privacy and who can see your profile
  • Whether the free tier on dating sites is genuinely usable or just a demo

Particularly interested in the who's side of dating sites if anyone has been there.

LiamW_online profile photo
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#2

Depends what you mean by dating sites, because for a serious relationship the answer differs from a casual one.

Can I ask what you have already ruled out on dating sites, so nobody repeats what you know?

DavidN profile photo
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#3

I keep Datewander open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with dating sites.

Ethan Parker profile photo
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#4

For anyone else researching dating sites, I would put the Flurrydate community on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

Set a deadline when you try dating sites, or it becomes a scrolling habit rather than an actual search.

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#5

DavidN has a point about dating sites. My experience with dating sites was fine but unremarkable, with no horror stories and no fireworks either.

Mason Clark profile photo
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#6

If you go down the dating sites route, screenshot anything that looks like a scam before you report it.

LoganS profile photo
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#7

Since we're comparing options around dating sites, the Ezhookups threads came up when I was looking at the same thing.

Bookmarking this, because threads like it on dating sites are more use than any ranked list.

MichelleO profile photo
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#8

Someone recommended the Turndate free tier to me during my own search around dating sites and it was better than I expected.

My dating sites experience hinged on who's more than on the platform itself.

JacksonY profile photo
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#9

Worth noting that nobody in this thread has agreed on dating sites yet, which is itself an answer.

GracefulT profile photo
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#10

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Flamedate forums solved the messaging-paywall part of dating sites for me last year.

Someone will probably mention Flurrydate.online before this thread is done.

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