Are there any farmers only dating site alternatives that are more modern?

Started by ZoeyA 9 replies Board: Dating Sites & Reviews
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ZoeyA profile photo
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#1

Made an account specifically to ask this one — farmers only dating site alternatives that are more modern, and where people actually land on it.

The reviews I can find on dating site never say what the free tier actually lets you do.

For what it's worth I did test a couple of options around dating site before posting.

My checklist for dating site, in rough order of importance:

  • What moderation on dating site actually looks like when you report someone
  • How long dating site takes before a conversation goes anywhere at all
  • How visible dating site keeps you when you are not paying for a boost
  • Whether farmers is the reason dating site feels inconsistent
  • What happens to your data if you delete a dating site account

Genuinely open to being argued out of my assumptions on dating site.

Benjamin Davis profile photo
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#2

Since we're comparing options around dating site, Datebie came up when I was looking at the same thing.

If you go down the dating site route, screenshot anything that looks like a scam before you report it.

AmandaH profile photo
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#3

The honest answer on dating site is that it varies, which is unsatisfying but true.

Madison Reed profile photo
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#4

Adding the Flamedate forums to the pile for dating site, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

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#5

Does farmers actually matter for what you want, or is it a side issue for dating site?

Agreed, and specifically on farmers — that is where dating site either works or falls apart.

Sophia Lane profile photo
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#6

If dating site is the question, the Datebound forums is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

Aiden Lewis profile photo
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#7

If you are testing dating site, keep the first message short and reference something specific in their profile.

Do you care more about cost or about moderation where dating site is concerned?

PatrickR profile photo
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#8

For anyone else researching dating site, I would put Datenest on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

One caution on dating site — check what happens to your visibility the moment you stop paying.

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#9

I keep the Datescout forums open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with dating site.

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#10

Once I sorted out farmers, the rest of dating site became much more manageable than I expected.

There is a version of dating site that is about features and a version that is about people, and they give very different answers.

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