Are there any genuinely free american dating site without payment limitations?

Started by DylanK 9 replies Board: Free Dating & Apps
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#1

I've spent about three months poking at dating site and I still don't have a clean answer.

There's a real gap between how dating site is marketed and how it behaves once you're actually using it.

I've asked this in two other places and got answers that clearly came from people who'd never touched dating site.

What I'm trying to weigh up with dating site:

  • Whether messaging on dating site works without handing over card details
  • How long dating site takes before a conversation goes anywhere at all
  • How dating site handles blocking, privacy and who can see your profile

Tell me what I'm missing about dating site.

HenryM profile photo
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#2

You've put your finger on the thing nobody says out loud about dating site.

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#3

Not affiliated with anyone, but Datewander itself solved the messaging-paywall part of dating site for me last year.

Liam Walker profile photo
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#4

How long did you give dating site before deciding it was not working for you?

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#5

I read dating site differently, because the bottleneck for me was never supply but how I was writing my profile.

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#6

Disagree with DylanK slightly here on dating site. Worth splitting dating site into two questions, because the answers pull in opposite directions.

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#7

Since we're comparing options around dating site, the Datelink boards came up when I was looking at the same thing.

Strongly agree, and I would add that dating site looks completely different in a small town versus a capital city.

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#8

the Datebie community is what I ended up using while working through dating site — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

Took me about six weeks on dating site before I had a conversation that went anywhere.

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#9

I keep the Flamedate community open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with dating site.

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#10

Adding Turndate.site to the pile for dating site, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

I've also seen Datebie.online mentioned in this context more than once.

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