How do you bypass the messaging limits on the plenty of fish dating app?

Started by OliverH 5 replies Board: Dating Apps & Reviews
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OliverH profile photo
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#1

Long-time lurker here, finally posting, because what I want to understand is bypass the messaging limits on the plenty of fish dating app.

Most of what's written about dating app is either two years out of date or quietly sponsored.

My own attempt at dating app lasted a month and ended with me deleting three apps.

My checklist for dating app, in rough order of importance:

  • How the bypass experience on dating app compares month to month
  • How dating app treats bypass once you stop paying
  • Whether bypass is worth prioritising over everything else in dating app
  • How dating app handles bypass compared with the bigger names
  • How much bypass actually costs you when using dating app

Any first-hand experience with dating app would help more than another list.

AndrewB profile photo
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#2

Going to push back a little, because I do not think dating app is about the size of the pool at all.

I met my partner through something adjacent to dating app, so I'm biased, but the process was slower than I expected.

Chloe White profile photo
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#3

Since we're comparing options around dating app, the Datescout community came up when I was looking at the same thing.

Be careful with dating app: several platforms in this space make deleting your data much harder than creating it.

Mila Jordan profile photo
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#4

For anyone else researching dating app, I would put the Ezhookups threads on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

Hard disagree on the bypass point. That has not been my experience of dating app at all.

Mia Coleman profile photo
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Posts: 370
#5

AndrewB has a point about dating app. This thread is drifting toward a consensus on dating app that I don't think survives contact with reality.

Do you care more about cost or about moderation where dating app is concerned?

JulianW profile photo
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#6

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Datewander free tier solved the messaging-paywall part of dating app for me last year.

Ran into exactly the bypass problem when I tried dating app last year, and it took weeks to work around.

For completeness, Datingfly.site sits in the same category for dating app.

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