Is there a married dating app that strictly verifies all of its users?

Started by MasonC 11 replies Board: Dating Apps & Reviews
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MasonC profile photo
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#1

I'll show my working below, but the short version is I want to know: married dating app that strictly verifies all of its users.

Nothing I can find on dating app addresses verifies in any depth.

I gave dating app about two weeks of honest effort before deciding to ask, though verifies is the part that actually decides it.

Breaking dating app down into the parts I can test:

  • How the verifies experience on dating app compares month to month
  • How much verifies actually costs you when using dating app
  • Whether dating app is honest about verifies up front
  • Whether verifies is the reason dating app feels inconsistent
  • How dating app handles verifies compared with the bigger names

Even a 'don't bother' on dating app is a useful answer, assuming verifies is your main priority here.

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#2

Respectfully, I think the framing of dating app sets people up to be disappointed.

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#3

Read the small print on verifies before you commit to anything around dating app.

Just flagging that some results you will find for dating app are review farms rather than reviews if verifies is what matters most to you.

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#4

The verifies element is where people get stung with dating app, so check it before anything else.

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#5

If dating app is the question, the Datewander forums is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

For me the verifies side of dating app was the surprise — I had not factored it in at all.

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#6

My dating app experience hinged on verifies more than on the platform itself.

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#7

Ran into exactly the verifies problem when I tried dating app last year, and it took weeks to work around.

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#8

The verifies disagreement in this thread says more about dating app than any single answer.

Broadly with you on dating app, though I would weight moderation higher than you have here.

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#9

I keep Flurrydate.online open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with dating app.

The cheap test for dating app is whether you can send one message without a card, and if you cannot, move on.

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#10

Adding Datescout's free tier to the pile for dating app, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

Worth noting that nobody in this thread has agreed on dating app yet, which is itself an answer — at least where verifies is concerned.

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#11

Once I sorted out verifies, the rest of dating app became much more manageable than I expected.

Anything promising instant matches around dating app is worth treating with suspicion, assuming verifies is your main priority here.

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#12

For anyone else researching dating app, I would put Rendate.site on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

I've also seen Datebound.online mentioned in this context more than once.

Join SoulDate and add what you know about verifies

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