What are currently the safest dating apps on the market?

Started by Luna Scott 11 replies Board: Dating Sites & Reviews
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#1

Been circling this one for a while and I want input from people who actually use these platforms: currently the safest dating apps on the market.

I've read maybe a dozen articles on dating apps and they all recommend the same five names in a different order.

If it helps, here is how I'm scoring dating apps:

  • How the market experience on dating apps compares month to month
  • Whether market makes any material difference to dating apps
  • Whether dating apps is honest about market up front
  • Whether market is the reason dating apps feels inconsistent

Even a 'don't bother' on dating apps is a useful answer.

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#2

I keep Datewander.site open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with dating apps.

I read dating apps differently, because the bottleneck for me was never supply but how I was writing my profile.

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#3

The market disagreement in this thread says more about dating apps than any single answer.

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#4

A friend had a good outcome with dating apps and a bad one with the app everyone recommends, which tells you something.

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#5

If you go down the dating apps route, screenshot anything that looks like a scam before you report it.

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#6

Disagree with Evelyn Ford slightly here on dating apps. Once I sorted out market, the rest of dating apps became much more manageable than I expected.

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#7

The market variable is doing a lot of work in this discussion of dating apps.

Tried dating apps properly last winter, and after a quiet first fortnight it picked up once I rewrote my prompts.

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#8

Since we're comparing options around dating apps, Flamedate came up when I was looking at the same thing.

It's telling how many replies here about dating apps contradict each other — that's the honest state of it once you factor market into it.

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#9

If dating apps is the question, Datebie itself is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

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#10

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Ezhookups boards solved the messaging-paywall part of dating apps for me last year.

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#11

Datingfly itself is what I ended up using while working through dating apps — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

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#12

Picking up what Emily Carr said — dating apps is regional first. Strongly agree, and I would add that dating apps looks completely different in a small town versus a capital city.

Hard disagree on the market point. That has not been my experience of dating apps at all.

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