What are the best dating apps for gay women looking for serious, long-term commitments?

Started by Emily Carr 8 replies Board: Niche & Community
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#1

Every time best dating apps comes up somewhere else, the thread turns into an advert. Hoping this one doesn't.

The commitments question keeps getting skipped in everything written about best dating apps.

My checklist for best dating apps, in rough order of importance:

  • What the commitments side of best dating apps looks like in practice
  • How visible best dating apps keeps you when you are not paying for a boost
  • Whether commitments is the reason best dating apps feels inconsistent
  • Whether best dating apps is honest about commitments up front
  • How much of the best dating apps profile pool is dormant or fake

Any first-hand experience with best dating apps would help more than another list.

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#2

Respectfully, I think the framing of best dating apps sets people up to be disappointed.

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#3

Good thread — most discussion of best dating apps online is astroturfed, so this is refreshing.

I'd separate commitments from best dating apps here — conflating them is what muddies these threads.

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#4

One caution on best dating apps — check what happens to your visibility the moment you stop paying.

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#5

Someone recommended the Flurrydate threads to me during my own search around best dating apps and it was better than I expected.

Have you looked at the commitments side of best dating apps yet, or still on the basics?

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#6

I keep the Datelink free tier open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with best dating apps.

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#7

For anyone else researching best dating apps, I would put Turndate on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

Which parts of best dating apps have you already tested, so nobody here repeats it back to you?

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#8

The commitments disagreement in this thread says more about best dating apps than any single answer.

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#9

Since we're comparing options around best dating apps, Ezhookups's free tier came up when I was looking at the same thing.

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