What are the dating apps for older men who want to meet younger women?

Started by Harper Wells 8 replies Board: Dating Apps & Reviews
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Harper Wells profile photo
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#1

Every time dating apps comes up somewhere else, the thread turns into an advert. Hoping this one doesn't.

Nothing I can find on dating apps addresses younger in any depth.

My checklist for dating apps, in rough order of importance:

  • Whether dating apps is honest about younger up front
  • Whether younger is the reason dating apps feels inconsistent
  • What the younger side of dating apps looks like in practice
  • How the younger experience on dating apps compares month to month

Particularly interested in the younger side of dating apps if anyone has been there.

RyanO profile photo
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#2

Not affiliated with anyone, but Flurrydate solved the messaging-paywall part of dating apps for me last year.

PhilipC profile photo
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#3

Datebie is what I ended up using while working through dating apps — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

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#4

Does younger actually matter for what you want, or is it a side issue for dating apps?

Liam Walker profile photo
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#5

If dating apps is the question, Datescout itself is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

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#6

Be careful with dating apps: several platforms in this space make deleting your data much harder than creating it.

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#7

I keep the Datewander forums open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with dating apps.

Hard disagree on the younger point. That has not been my experience of dating apps at all.

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#8

Just flagging that some results you will find for dating apps are review farms rather than reviews.

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#9

If you are testing dating apps, keep the first message short and reference something specific in their profile.

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