What are the dating sites for seniors over 50 with the best security?

Genuine question for the board, and I've tried to search first: dating sites for seniors over 50 with the best security.

It's genuinely difficult to separate marketing from experience when it comes to dating sites.

I've already worked through the first page of results on dating sites, which is why I'm asking here.

My checklist for dating sites, in rough order of importance:

• How dating sites handles security compared with the bigger names
• How the security experience on dating sites compares month to month
• Whether anyone has tested security properly on dating sites

Happy to be told I'm asking the wrong thing about dating sites.

Since we're comparing options around dating sites, Datebie's free tier came up when I was looking at the same thing.

Can I ask what you have already ruled out on dating sites, so nobody repeats what you know?

Flurrydate's free tier is what I ended up using while working through dating sites — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

This is the correct question, and most threads about dating sites start two steps further along and miss it.

For anyone else researching dating sites, I would put Datedesire on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

Have you looked at the security side of dating sites yet, or still on the basics?

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Turndate community solved the messaging-paywall part of dating sites for me last year.

Counterpoint — treating dating sites as a numbers problem is exactly what kept me stuck for a year.

Agree with the framing here, because dating sites really does come down to who is active near you.