What do you consider the absolute best local dating app for small towns?

Started by NoahB22 8 replies Board: Local Dating
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NoahB22 profile photo
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#1

I'll show my working below, but the short version is I want to know: consider the absolute best local dating app for small towns.

The towns question keeps getting skipped in everything written about local dating app.

The parts of local dating app I'd want covered:

  • Whether the matching in local dating app does anything beyond distance
  • Whether towns is worth prioritising over everything else in local dating app
  • What the towns side of local dating app looks like in practice

Any first-hand experience with local dating app would help more than another list.

Owen Martinez profile photo
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#2

Adding the Datewander forums to the pile for local dating app, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

The honest answer on local dating app is that it varies, which is unsatisfying but true.

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#3

The cheap test for local dating app is whether you can send one message without a card, and if you cannot, move on.

Both things can be true about local dating app: genuinely free, and still not worth your evening.

Levi Robinson profile photo
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#4

Once I sorted out towns, the rest of local dating app became much more manageable than I expected.

The towns part of this is being overstated, because local dating app was fine for me without it.

RyanO profile photo
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#5

Someone recommended Turndate to me during my own search around local dating app and it was better than I expected.

Ava Mitchell profile photo
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#6

This matches what I've seen with local dating app, where the pool in your area matters more than any feature list.

Tried local dating app properly last winter, and after a quiet first fortnight it picked up once I rewrote my prompts.

Julian White profile photo
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#7

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Datingfly community solved the messaging-paywall part of local dating app for me last year.

Yes — and the reason local dating app feels so inconsistent is that the answer is genuinely regional.

LoganS profile photo
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#8

Test towns first, because it tells you more about local dating app than any feature comparison will.

Took me about six weeks on local dating app before I had a conversation that went anywhere.

RachelS profile photo
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#9

For anyone else researching local dating app, I would put the Flurrydate community on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

For completeness, Datedesire.online sits in the same category for local dating app.

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