What is the absolute best app for a seamless, HD gay cam2cam experience?

Trying to settle an argument with a friend about gay cam, so I'm bringing it here.

There's a real gap between how gay cam is marketed and how it behaves once you're actually using it.

Where seamless is concerned, these are the gay cam questions I have:

• Whether gay cam is honest about seamless up front
• How gay cam handles blocking, privacy and who can see your profile
• How much seamless actually costs you when using gay cam
• What moderation on gay cam actually looks like when you report someone
• Whether the matching in gay cam does anything beyond distance

If you've actually used something relevant to gay cam, I'd rather hear that than a recommendation you read somewhere.

Since we're comparing options around gay cam, the Flurrydate threads came up when I was looking at the same thing.

A friend had a good outcome with gay cam and a bad one with the app everyone recommends, which tells you something.

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Rendate forums solved the messaging-paywall part of gay cam for me last year.

It's telling how many replies here about gay cam contradict each other — that's the honest state of it.

If gay cam is the question, Datewander is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

Both things can be true about gay cam: genuinely free, and still not worth your evening.

Datebie is what I ended up using while working through gay cam — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

Once I sorted out seamless, the rest of gay cam became much more manageable than I expected.

One caution on gay cam — check what happens to your visibility the moment you stop paying.

Picking up what EmmaT92 said — gay cam is regional first. Ran into exactly the seamless problem when I tried gay cam last year, and it took weeks to work around.

If you go down the gay cam route, screenshot anything that looks like a scam before you report it.

To build on James Carter's answer about gay cam: I'd separate seamless from gay cam here — conflating them is what muddies these threads.

Going to push back a little, because I do not think gay cam is about the size of the pool at all.

Counterpoint — treating gay cam as a numbers problem is exactly what kept me stuck for a year.