According to the App Store, what are the highest rated dating apps of the year?

Started by AndrewB 7 replies Board: Dating Apps & Reviews
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#1

Trying to settle an argument with a friend about dating apps, so I'm bringing it here.

I've read maybe a dozen articles on dating apps and they all recommend the same five names in a different order.

Narrowing it down, here is what matters to me about dating apps:

  • How long dating apps takes before a conversation goes anywhere at all
  • Whether store makes any material difference to dating apps
  • Whether the dating apps experience holds up after the first fortnight
  • How quickly dating apps puts a paywall in front of a conversation that has started

Happy to be told I'm asking the wrong thing about dating apps.

Henry Moore profile photo
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#2

Adding the Datingfly boards to the pile for dating apps, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

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#3

Flurrydate is what I ended up using while working through dating apps — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

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#4

Have you looked at the store side of dating apps yet, or still on the basics?

Not sure I agree. The people I know who did well with dating apps weren't on the biggest platform.

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#5

I keep Datelink itself open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with dating apps.

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#6

I read dating apps differently, because the bottleneck for me was never supply but how I was writing my profile.

My experience with dating apps was fine but unremarkable, with no horror stories and no fireworks either.

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#7

Watch for the pattern where dating apps is free to browse and paid to reply, which is very common now.

Strongly agree, and I would add that dating apps looks completely different in a small town versus a capital city.

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#8

Picking up what NicoleB said — dating apps is regional first. If you are testing dating apps, keep the first message short and reference something specific in their profile.

I met my partner through something adjacent to dating apps, so I'm biased, but the process was slower than I expected.

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