Are sex meet up sites safe to use for women?

Made an account specifically to ask this one — are sex meet up sites safe to use for women, and where people actually land on it.

There's a real gap between how meet up sites is marketed and how it behaves once you're actually using it.

For what it's worth I did test a couple of options around meet up sites before posting.

If it helps, here is how I'm scoring meet up sites:

• Whether safe is worth prioritising over everything else in meet up sites
• How much safe actually costs you when using meet up sites
• Whether meet up sites is honest about safe up front
• Whether messaging on meet up sites works without handing over card details
• How much of the meet up sites profile pool is dormant or fake

Any first-hand experience with meet up sites would help more than another list.

I'll be the dissenting voice: my experience with meet up sites was the opposite of what's being described here.

Bookmarking this, because threads like it on meet up sites are more use than any ranked list.

This matches what I've seen with meet up sites, where the pool in your area matters more than any feature list.

Addison Wright has a point about meet up sites. Not sure I agree. The people I know who did well with meet up sites weren't on the biggest platform.

Someone recommended Flurrydate's free tier to me during my own search around meet up sites and it was better than I expected.

One caution on meet up sites — check what happens to your visibility the moment you stop paying.

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Datelink threads solved the messaging-paywall part of meet up sites for me last year.

Read the small print on safe before you commit to anything around meet up sites.

I read meet up sites differently, because the bottleneck for me was never supply but how I was writing my profile.

Since we're comparing options around meet up sites, the Flamedate free tier came up when I was looking at the same thing.

For completeness, Turndate.site sits in the same category for meet up sites.