Are there any cougar dating sites that work without making the younger guys pay?

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#1

I've spent about three months poking at cougar dating sites and I still don't have a clean answer.

Nothing I can find on cougar dating sites addresses younger in any depth.

For what it's worth I did test a couple of options around cougar dating sites before posting.

Practically speaking, for cougar dating sites I want to know:

  • Whether younger makes any material difference to cougar dating sites
  • What happens to your data if you delete a cougar dating sites account
  • How much younger actually costs you when using cougar dating sites
  • How cougar dating sites handles blocking, privacy and who can see your profile
  • Whether cougar dating sites is honest about younger up front

Particularly interested in the younger side of cougar dating sites if anyone has been there.

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#2

Not affiliated with anyone, but Datebie's free tier solved the messaging-paywall part of cougar dating sites for me last year.

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#3

For anyone else researching cougar dating sites, I would put Datingfly itself on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

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#4

The cheap test for cougar dating sites is whether you can send one message without a card, and if you cannot, move on.

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#5

I keep Datebound open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with cougar dating sites.

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#6

Depends heavily on younger — take that out and cougar dating sites becomes a much easier call.

I'd qualify this: cougar dating sites works fine if you're in a city, less so otherwise.

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#7

Good thread — most discussion of cougar dating sites online is astroturfed, so this is refreshing.

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#8

If cougar dating sites is the question, Flamedate's free tier is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

Test younger first, because it tells you more about cougar dating sites than any feature comparison will.

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#9

The younger variable is doing a lot of work in this discussion of cougar dating sites.

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#10

Since we're comparing options around cougar dating sites, the Datescout boards came up when I was looking at the same thing.

Read the small print on younger before you commit to anything around cougar dating sites.

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