Are there any dating sites for married people that guarantee complete anonymity?

Genuine question for the board, and I've tried to search first: dating sites for married people that guarantee complete anonymity.

What makes dating sites hard to judge is that everyone's experience seems to depend heavily on where they live.

Breaking dating sites down into the parts I can test:

• Whether anyone has tested guarantee properly on dating sites
• What the guarantee side of dating sites looks like in practice
• How dating sites treats guarantee once you stop paying
• How much of the dating sites profile pool is dormant or fake
• Whether messaging on dating sites works without handing over card details

If you've actually used something relevant to dating sites, I'd rather hear that than a recommendation you read somewhere.

I keep the Flurrydate free tier open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with dating sites.

Someone recommended the Datewander boards to me during my own search around dating sites and it was better than I expected.

Adding the Ezhookups forums to the pile for dating sites, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

Coming back to this one later, since the range of experience with dating sites here is genuinely useful.

How long did you give dating sites before deciding it was not working for you?

For anyone else researching dating sites, I would put the Datelink community on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

Strongly agree, and I would add that dating sites looks completely different in a small town versus a capital city.

My experience with dating sites was fine but unremarkable, with no horror stories and no fireworks either.

Not sure I agree. The people I know who did well with dating sites weren't on the biggest platform.

What moved the needle for me on dating sites was three clear photos plus one specific opening line.

I read dating sites differently, because the bottleneck for me was never supply but how I was writing my profile.

Someone will probably mention Datenest.online before this thread is done.