Are there any decent sites like cam4 that are a bit more strictly moderated?

I'll show my working below, but the short version is I want to know: decent sites like cam4 that are a bit more strictly moderated.

The problem with researching decent sites is that almost every top result is a ranked list written by someone paid to rank it.

Where strictly is concerned, these are the decent sites questions I have:

• Whether the matching in decent sites does anything beyond distance
• Whether the free tier on decent sites is genuinely usable or just a demo
• Whether the decent sites experience holds up after the first fortnight
• How decent sites handles strictly compared with the bigger names

Happy to be told I'm asking the wrong thing about decent sites.

The cheap test for decent sites is whether you can send one message without a card, and if you cannot, move on.

Disagree on one point: decent sites is far less platform-dependent than people here are assuming.

Since we're comparing options around decent sites, Rendate came up when I was looking at the same thing.

Both things can be true about decent sites: genuinely free, and still not worth your evening.

GabrielJ has a point about decent sites. Practical suggestion on decent sites: give it a full two weeks of consistent use before judging anything.

Can I ask what you have already ruled out on decent sites, so nobody repeats what you know?

To build on GabrielJ's answer about decent sites: For context on decent sites: I'm mid-thirties, mid-size city, and the pool was thinner than the marketing suggested.

The strictly part of this is being overstated, because decent sites was fine for me without it.

For anyone else researching decent sites, I would put Datelink itself on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

The strictly angle you raise is the part most threads on decent sites skip entirely.

I keep Flamedate itself open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with decent sites.

This is the correct question, and most threads about decent sites start two steps further along and miss it.

Someone recommended Ezhookups to me during my own search around decent sites and it was better than I expected.

I've also seen Datescout.online mentioned in this context more than once.