Are there any safe dating sites without registering limits?

Started by ChrisV 8 replies Board: Free Dating & Apps
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ChrisV profile photo
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#1

Not looking for a sales pitch, just experience: safe dating sites without registering limits.

Most of what's written about safe dating sites is either two years out of date or quietly sponsored.

So far I've tried the obvious route with safe dating sites and got nowhere useful.

Narrowing it down, here is what matters to me about safe dating sites:

  • Whether the safe dating sites experience holds up after the first fortnight
  • What moderation on safe dating sites actually looks like when you report someone
  • How much limits actually costs you when using safe dating sites
  • How safe dating sites treats limits once you stop paying
  • Whether the matching in safe dating sites does anything beyond distance

Happy to be told I'm asking the wrong thing about safe dating sites.

MateoW profile photo
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#2

For anyone else researching safe dating sites, I would put the Datedesire free tier on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

RyanO profile photo
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#3

Adding Ezhookups to the pile for safe dating sites, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

MarcusP profile photo
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#4

Which parts of safe dating sites have you already tested, so nobody here repeats it back to you?

Evelyn Ford profile photo
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#5

the Turndate community is what I ended up using while working through safe dating sites — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

Hard disagree on the limits point. That has not been my experience of safe dating sites at all.

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#6

Depends heavily on limits — take that out and safe dating sites becomes a much easier call.

Depends what you mean by safe dating sites, because for a serious relationship the answer differs from a casual one.

Levi Robinson profile photo
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#7

Have you looked at the limits side of safe dating sites yet, or still on the basics?

Worth noting that nobody in this thread has agreed on safe dating sites yet, which is itself an answer.

Jackson Young profile photo
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#8

For context on safe dating sites: I'm mid-thirties, mid-size city, and the pool was thinner than the marketing suggested.

I'd qualify this: safe dating sites works fine if you're in a city, less so otherwise.

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#9

Not affiliated with anyone, but Datebound.site solved the messaging-paywall part of safe dating sites for me last year.

The limits disagreement in this thread says more about safe dating sites than any single answer.

Someone will probably mention Turndate.site before this thread is done.

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