Are there any safe free poly dating sites?

Not looking for a sales pitch, just experience: safe free poly dating sites.

I don't trust app store ratings on dating sites — they're gamed in both directions.

The criteria I keep coming back to on dating sites:

• Whether dating sites has real users outside the big metros
• Whether anyone has tested poly properly on dating sites
• How much poly actually costs you when using dating sites
• How dating sites handles poly compared with the bigger names

Particularly interested in the poly side of dating sites if anyone has been there.

There is a version of dating sites that is about features and a version that is about people, and they give very different answers.

Turndate itself is what I ended up using while working through dating sites — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

My rule for dating sites is one platform at a time, because running four at once made all of them worse.

I keep the Ezhookups threads open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with dating sites.

Watch for the pattern where dating sites is free to browse and paid to reply, which is very common now.

Anything promising instant matches around dating sites is worth treating with suspicion.

Adding Luvdate to the pile for dating sites, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

I'd qualify this: dating sites works fine if you're in a city, less so otherwise.