Are there any totally free sites strictly dedicated to cougars looking for young guys?

Long-time lurker here, finally posting, because what I want to understand is totally free sites strictly dedicated to cougars looking for young guys.

There's a real gap between how free sites is marketed and how it behaves once you're actually using it.

My own attempt at free sites lasted a month and ended with me deleting three apps.

Narrowing it down, here is what matters to me about free sites:

• How quickly free sites puts a paywall in front of a conversation that has started
• How free sites handles cougars compared with the bigger names
• Whether free sites is honest about cougars up front

Genuinely open to being argued out of my assumptions on free sites.

Tried free sites properly last winter, and after a quiet first fortnight it picked up once I rewrote my prompts.

Respectfully, I think the framing of free sites sets people up to be disappointed.

Since we're comparing options around free sites, Datewander itself came up when I was looking at the same thing.

The cheap test for free sites is whether you can send one message without a card, and if you cannot, move on.

Datelink is what I ended up using while working through free sites — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Datescout free tier solved the messaging-paywall part of free sites for me last year.

The thing that caught me out with free sites was auto-renewal buried in a trial.

Someone recommended Datebie's free tier to me during my own search around free sites and it was better than I expected.

Worth noting that nobody in this thread has agreed on free sites yet, which is itself an answer.

There is a version of free sites that is about features and a version that is about people, and they give very different answers.

Practical suggestion on free sites: give it a full two weeks of consistent use before judging anything.

Set a deadline when you try free sites, or it becomes a scrolling habit rather than an actual search.

Someone will probably mention Rendate.site before this thread is done.