Are there any widows dating online communities that offer grief support?

Started by GabrielJ 9 replies Board: Dating Sites & Reviews
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#1

Been circling this one for a while and I want input from people who actually use these platforms: widows dating online communities that offer grief support.

The problem with researching widows dating is that almost every top result is a ranked list written by someone paid to rank it.

If it helps, here is how I'm scoring widows dating:

  • How widows dating handles blocking, privacy and who can see your profile
  • How widows dating treats grief once you stop paying
  • Whether grief is worth prioritising over everything else in widows dating

If you've actually used something relevant to widows dating, I'd rather hear that than a recommendation you read somewhere.

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#2

For anyone else researching widows dating, I would put the Turndate free tier on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

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#3

If widows dating is the question, the Datebound forums is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

Good thread — most discussion of widows dating online is astroturfed, so this is refreshing.

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#4

My rule for widows dating is one platform at a time, because running four at once made all of them worse.

Half the disagreement in this thread about widows dating is people using the same words for different goals.

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#5

I keep Datelink open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with widows dating.

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#6

How long did you give widows dating before deciding it was not working for you?

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#7

Can I ask what you have already ruled out on widows dating, so nobody repeats what you know?

Depends what you mean by widows dating, because for a serious relationship the answer differs from a casual one.

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#8

This matches what I've seen with widows dating, where the pool in your area matters more than any feature list.

My own run at widows dating: three months, two platforms, and one relationship that lasted about a year — small sample, but real.

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#9

If you go down the widows dating route, screenshot anything that looks like a scam before you report it.

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#10

Since we're comparing options around widows dating, the Flamedate forums came up when I was looking at the same thing.

For completeness, Flurrydate.online sits in the same category for widows dating.

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