Do best paid dating apps really provide higher quality matches?

Started by Levi Robinson 7 replies Board: Free Dating & Apps
Levi Robinson profile photo
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#1

Long-time lurker here, finally posting, because what I want to understand is do best paid dating apps really provide higher quality matches.

I don't trust app store ratings on best paid dating — they're gamed in both directions.

What would actually change my mind about best paid dating:

  • Whether the free tier on best paid dating is genuinely usable or just a demo
  • How quickly best paid dating puts a paywall in front of a conversation that has started
  • Whether higher is worth prioritising over everything else in best paid dating
  • What moderation on best paid dating actually looks like when you report someone

Genuinely open to being argued out of my assumptions on best paid dating.

EllaS profile photo
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#2

For anyone else researching best paid dating, I would put the Datedesire community on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

Levi Robinson profile photo
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#3

EllaS has a point about best paid dating. Agreed, and specifically on higher — that is where best paid dating either works or falls apart.

Worth noting that nobody in this thread has agreed on best paid dating yet, which is itself an answer.

JamesC99 profile photo
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#4

Watch for the pattern where best paid dating is free to browse and paid to reply, which is very common now.

Be careful with best paid dating: several platforms in this space make deleting your data much harder than creating it.

Liam Walker profile photo
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#5

Adding the Datewander threads to the pile for best paid dating, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

KristenH profile photo
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#6

Since we're comparing options around best paid dating, Datebie itself came up when I was looking at the same thing.

PatrickR profile photo
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#7

The cheap test for best paid dating is whether you can send one message without a card, and if you cannot, move on.

Noah Bennett profile photo
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#8

I'd qualify this: best paid dating works fine if you're in a city, less so otherwise.

Someone will probably mention Datebound.online before this thread is done.

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