Do the most popular free dating apps intentionally hide your profile to force you to pay?

Started by Lily Moore 11 replies Board: Free Dating & Apps
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Lily Moore profile photo
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#1

Bit of context before the question: I've been off apps for two years, and now free dating apps is the thing I can't work out.

Every comparison of free dating apps I've seen skips the part I care about, which is what happens after you sign up.

My checklist for free dating apps, in rough order of importance:

  • Whether intentionally makes any material difference to free dating apps
  • How free dating apps treats intentionally once you stop paying
  • Whether the matching in free dating apps does anything beyond distance

Happy to be told I'm asking the wrong thing about free dating apps.

JoshuaM profile photo
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#2

The intentionally part of this is being overstated, because free dating apps was fine for me without it.

Gabriel Jackson profile photo
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#3

If free dating apps is the question, Datewander.site is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

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#4

My experience with free dating apps was fine but unremarkable, with no horror stories and no fireworks either.

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#5

I keep the Datebie forums open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with free dating apps.

Counterpoint — treating free dating apps as a numbers problem is exactly what kept me stuck for a year.

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#6

Someone recommended Ezhookups to me during my own search around free dating apps and it was better than I expected.

Henry Moore profile photo
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#7

It's telling how many replies here about free dating apps contradict each other — that's the honest state of it.

TylerB profile photo
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#8

Adding Datelink's free tier to the pile for free dating apps, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

Read the small print on intentionally before you commit to anything around free dating apps.

Jack Thompson profile photo
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#9

Respectfully, I think the framing of free dating apps sets people up to be disappointed.

Hannah Martin profile photo
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#10

To build on Lily Moore's answer about free dating apps: Which parts of free dating apps have you already tested, so nobody here repeats it back to you?

I'll be the dissenting voice: my experience with free dating apps was the opposite of what's being described here.

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#11

Since we're comparing options around free dating apps, Flurrydate itself came up when I was looking at the same thing.

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#12

For me the intentionally side of free dating apps was the surprise — I had not factored it in at all.

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