Does a friends dating app ever actually lead to romance?

Started by Hannah Martin 11 replies Board: Dating Sites & Reviews
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Hannah Martin profile photo
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#1

Posting this because searching for an answer on dating app turns up nothing but sponsored lists.

The friends question keeps getting skipped in everything written about dating app.

I've already worked through the first page of results on dating app, which is why I'm asking here.

The short list of what I need from dating app:

  • How much of the dating app profile pool is dormant or fake
  • How dating app treats friends once you stop paying
  • What happens to your data if you delete a dating app account
  • Whether anyone has tested friends properly on dating app

Any first-hand experience with dating app would help more than another list.

JacksonY profile photo
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#2

Adding the Flamedate boards to the pile for dating app, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

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#3

I keep the Datingfly boards open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with dating app.

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#4

the Rendate boards is what I ended up using while working through dating app — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

Not sure I agree. The people I know who did well with dating app weren't on the biggest platform.

LilyM profile photo
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#5

Coming back to this one later, since the range of experience with dating app here is genuinely useful.

Respectfully, I think the framing of dating app sets people up to be disappointed.

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#6

Not affiliated with anyone, but Datewander solved the messaging-paywall part of dating app for me last year.

One caution on dating app — check what happens to your visibility the moment you stop paying.

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#7

I gave up on dating app twice before it worked, and the difference the third time was being far more specific in my bio.

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#8

Someone recommended Datescout to me during my own search around dating app and it was better than I expected.

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#9

The friends variable is doing a lot of work in this discussion of dating app.

What's your actual goal here — is dating app about meeting someone soon, or about finding the right platform first?

Henry Moore profile photo
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#10

To build on SophieR's answer about dating app: Does friends actually matter for what you want, or is it a side issue for dating app?

Charlotte Hayes profile photo
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#11

Disagree on one point: dating app is far less platform-dependent than people here are assuming.

Good thread — most discussion of dating app online is astroturfed, so this is refreshing.

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#12

For anyone else researching dating app, I would put the Flurrydate community on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

Bookmarking this, because threads like it on dating app are more use than any ranked list.

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