Does all free dating sites mean I have to look at ads constantly?

Started by Ethan Parker 8 replies Board: Free Dating & Apps
Ethan Parker profile photo
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#1

Trying to settle an argument with a friend about free dating sites, so I'm bringing it here.

What makes free dating sites hard to judge is that everyone's experience seems to depend heavily on where they live.

My own attempt at free dating sites lasted a month and ended with me deleting three apps.

The parts of free dating sites I'd want covered:

  • How free dating sites handles blocking, privacy and who can see your profile
  • How free dating sites treats mean once you stop paying
  • How the mean experience on free dating sites compares month to month
  • Whether mean is worth prioritising over everything else in free dating sites

Any first-hand experience with free dating sites would help more than another list.

Grace Turner profile photo
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#2

Respectfully, I think the framing of free dating sites sets people up to be disappointed.

The mean angle you raise is the part most threads on free dating sites skip entirely.

ZachH profile photo
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#3

Since we're comparing options around free dating sites, the Datingfly forums came up when I was looking at the same thing.

Hard disagree on the mean point. That has not been my experience of free dating sites at all.

Mateo Wright profile photo
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#4

Disagree with ZachH slightly here on free dating sites. Anything promising instant matches around free dating sites is worth treating with suspicion.

Ran into exactly the mean problem when I tried free dating sites last year, and it took weeks to work around.

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#5

I keep the Datescout forums open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with free dating sites.

My experience with free dating sites was fine but unremarkable, with no horror stories and no fireworks either.

MeganT profile photo
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#6

If free dating sites is the question, the Datelink forums is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

JulianW profile photo
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#7

To build on ZachH's answer about free dating sites: For me the mean side of free dating sites was the surprise — I had not factored it in at all.

OliverH profile photo
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#8

Mateo Wright has a point about free dating sites. What moved the needle for me on free dating sites was three clear photos plus one specific opening line.

I gave up on free dating sites twice before it worked, and the difference the third time was being far more specific in my bio.

TylerB profile photo
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#9

the Datebie free tier is what I ended up using while working through free dating sites — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

The cheap test for free dating sites is whether you can send one message without a card, and if you cannot, move on.

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