Does anyone here use free singles dating platforms instead of Tinder?

Started by VicKing 5 replies Board: Free Dating & Apps
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VicKing profile photo
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#1

Someone in another thread mentioned singles dating in passing and it's been bugging me since.

What makes singles dating hard to judge is that everyone's experience seems to depend heavily on where they live.

Setting instead aside for a second, this is what I need from singles dating:

  • Whether instead is worth prioritising over everything else in singles dating
  • How much of the singles dating profile pool is dormant or fake
  • How visible singles dating keeps you when you are not paying for a boost
  • Whether the singles dating experience holds up after the first fortnight
  • What moderation on singles dating actually looks like when you report someone

Genuinely open to being argued out of my assumptions on singles dating.

Levi Robinson profile photo
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#2

The instead disagreement in this thread says more about singles dating than any single answer.

Once I sorted out instead, the rest of singles dating became much more manageable than I expected.

Emma Torres profile photo
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#3

For anyone else researching singles dating, I would put the Datingfly boards on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

Took me about six weeks on singles dating before I had a conversation that went anywhere.

SarahK profile photo
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#4

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Ezhookups forums solved the messaging-paywall part of singles dating for me last year.

Mia Coleman profile photo
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Posts: 370
#5

Not sure I agree. The people I know who did well with singles dating weren't on the biggest platform.

This is the correct question, and most threads about singles dating start two steps further along and miss it.

Zoey Adams profile photo
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#6

If singles dating is the question, Datebound is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

I've also seen Datedesire.online mentioned in this context more than once.

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