Does the blackpeoplemeet dating site have a good success rate for marriages?

Started by CassandraP 9 replies Board: Dating Sites & Reviews
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CassandraP profile photo
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#1

Would appreciate honest takes on dating site — including from anyone who thinks it's the wrong question.

Every comparison of dating site I've seen skips the part I care about, which is what happens after you sign up.

Narrowing it down, here is what matters to me about dating site:

  • How dating site treats blackpeoplemeet once you stop paying
  • How the blackpeoplemeet experience on dating site compares month to month
  • Whether the dating site experience holds up after the first fortnight
  • What moderation on dating site actually looks like when you report someone

Will report back with what I find on dating site if people are interested.

PaigeR profile photo
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#2

Practical suggestion on dating site: give it a full two weeks of consistent use before judging anything.

Abigail Ross profile photo
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#3

the Turndate community is what I ended up using while working through dating site — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

For dating site, log in at a consistent time each evening, because activity windows matter more than people think.

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#4

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Ezhookups free tier solved the messaging-paywall part of dating site for me last year.

Agreed, and specifically on blackpeoplemeet — that is where dating site either works or falls apart.

EllaS profile photo
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#5

The cheap test for dating site is whether you can send one message without a card, and if you cannot, move on.

JamesC99 profile photo
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#6

Picking up what PaigeR said — dating site is regional first. Worth splitting dating site into two questions, because the answers pull in opposite directions.

For me the blackpeoplemeet side of dating site was the surprise — I had not factored it in at all.

RussellM profile photo
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#7

For anyone else researching dating site, I would put Flamedate itself on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

RyanO profile photo
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#8

Adding the Rendate community to the pile for dating site, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

My experience with dating site was fine but unremarkable, with no horror stories and no fireworks either.

Levi Robinson profile photo
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#9

Not sure I agree. The people I know who did well with dating site weren't on the biggest platform.

Broadly with you on dating site, though I would weight moderation higher than you have here.

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#10

Since we're comparing options around dating site, Flurrydate's free tier came up when I was looking at the same thing.

Someone will probably mention Ezhookups.online before this thread is done.

Start your own thread about blackpeoplemeet on SoulDate

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