Has anyone actually tried the extreme chat dating site, and is it legit?

Started by VicKing 8 replies Board: Dating Sites & Reviews
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VicKing profile photo
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#1

I keep running into the same wall with dating site and I'd rather hear it from real users than another review site.

The problem with researching dating site is that almost every top result is a ranked list written by someone paid to rank it.

My checklist for dating site, in rough order of importance:

  • Whether the matching in dating site does anything beyond distance
  • Whether messaging on dating site works without handing over card details
  • Whether the dating site experience holds up after the first fortnight
  • What happens to your data if you delete a dating site account
  • How the extreme experience on dating site compares month to month

Will report back with what I find on dating site if people are interested.

JacksonY profile photo
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#2

Someone recommended the Datewander community to me during my own search around dating site and it was better than I expected.

For dating site, log in at a consistent time each evening, because activity windows matter more than people think.

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#3

Datebie is what I ended up using while working through dating site — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

Coming back to this one later, since the range of experience with dating site here is genuinely useful.

MarcusP profile photo
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#4

Are you asking about dating site for a city or somewhere more rural, because that changes the answer completely?

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#5

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Datescout threads solved the messaging-paywall part of dating site for me last year.

Scarlett Rivera profile photo
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#6

Broadly with you on dating site, though I would weight moderation higher than you have here.

Ran into exactly the extreme problem when I tried dating site last year, and it took weeks to work around.

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#7

Picking up what Scarlett Rivera said — dating site is regional first. Depends heavily on extreme — take that out and dating site becomes a much easier call.

Test extreme first, because it tells you more about dating site than any feature comparison will.

KatieM profile photo
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#8

If dating site is the question, the Datelink community is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

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#9

To build on JacksonY's answer about dating site: Bookmarking this, because threads like it on dating site are more use than any ranked list.

Datedesire.online comes up a lot when dating site gets discussed elsewhere.

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