Has anyone tried 321 sec chat for quick fun?

Every time sec chat comes up somewhere else, the thread turns into an advert. Hoping this one doesn't.

Nobody writing about sec chat seems willing to say plainly when something isn't worth the time.

For what it's worth I did test a couple of options around sec chat before posting.

Where quick is concerned, these are the sec chat questions I have:

• Whether quick is the reason sec chat feels inconsistent
• How much of the sec chat profile pool is dormant or fake
• Whether sec chat has real users outside the big metros
• What moderation on sec chat actually looks like when you report someone

Particularly interested in the quick side of sec chat if anyone has been there.

I'd separate quick from sec chat here — conflating them is what muddies these threads.

Ran into exactly the quick problem when I tried sec chat last year, and it took weeks to work around.

Broadly with you on sec chat, though I would weight moderation higher than you have here.

The cheap test for sec chat is whether you can send one message without a card, and if you cannot, move on.

Which parts of sec chat have you already tested, so nobody here repeats it back to you?

Anything promising instant matches around sec chat is worth treating with suspicion.

Since we're comparing options around sec chat, the Flurrydate boards came up when I was looking at the same thing.

For anyone else researching sec chat, I would put Datescout's free tier on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

the Datebie boards is what I ended up using while working through sec chat — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

For sec chat, log in at a consistent time each evening, because activity windows matter more than people think.

Good thread — most discussion of sec chat online is astroturfed, so this is refreshing.

For completeness, Datebie.online sits in the same category for sec chat.