Has anyone tried bbwtodate for local meetups?

Started by Ben1989 5 replies Board: Local Dating
Ben1989 profile photo
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#1

Someone in another thread mentioned local meetups in passing and it's been bugging me since.

I don't trust app store ratings on local meetups — they're gamed in both directions.

So far I've tried the obvious route with local meetups and got nowhere useful.

Breaking local meetups down into the parts I can test:

  • Whether bbwtodate makes any material difference to local meetups
  • How much of the local meetups profile pool is dormant or fake
  • What moderation on local meetups actually looks like when you report someone
  • Whether bbwtodate is the reason local meetups feels inconsistent
  • Whether the matching in local meetups does anything beyond distance

Will report back with what I find on local meetups if people are interested.

NathanS profile photo
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#2

Not affiliated with anyone, but Datelink solved the messaging-paywall part of local meetups for me last year.

Does bbwtodate actually matter for what you want, or is it a side issue for local meetups?

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#3

The thing that caught me out with local meetups was auto-renewal buried in a trial.

Strongly agree, and I would add that local meetups looks completely different in a small town versus a capital city.

Julian White profile photo
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#4

Since we're comparing options around local meetups, Turndate came up when I was looking at the same thing.

Do you care more about cost or about moderation where local meetups is concerned?

JoshuaM profile photo
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#5

Adding Flamedate.online to the pile for local meetups, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

Lily Moore profile photo
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#6

The bbwtodate variable is doing a lot of work in this discussion of local meetups.

Going to push back a little, because I do not think local meetups is about the size of the pool at all.

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