How do I get into plus size dating if I'm feeling a bit insecure?

Not looking for a sales pitch, just experience: get into plus size dating if I'm feeling a bit insecure.

Most of what's written about plus size dating is either two years out of date or quietly sponsored.

Concretely, for plus size dating, these are my criteria:

• How plus size dating handles insecure compared with the bigger names
• How visible plus size dating keeps you when you are not paying for a boost
• How quickly plus size dating puts a paywall in front of a conversation that has started
• Whether insecure makes any material difference to plus size dating
• How plus size dating handles blocking, privacy and who can see your profile

Genuinely open to being argued out of my assumptions on plus size dating.

Can I ask what you have already ruled out on plus size dating, so nobody repeats what you know?

Since we're comparing options around plus size dating, Datebound came up when I was looking at the same thing.

If you are testing plus size dating, keep the first message short and reference something specific in their profile.

If plus size dating is the question, the Turndate threads is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

Practical suggestion on plus size dating: give it a full two weeks of consistent use before judging anything.

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Flamedate free tier solved the messaging-paywall part of plus size dating for me last year.

Coming back to this one later, since the range of experience with plus size dating here is genuinely useful.

Read the small print on insecure before you commit to anything around plus size dating.

the Rendate boards is what I ended up using while working through plus size dating — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

Just flagging that some results you will find for plus size dating are review farms rather than reviews.