How do you find an srx chat that actually has real women and not just guys?

Long-time lurker here, finally posting, because what I want to understand is find an srx chat that actually has real women and not just guys.

Most of what's written about real women is either two years out of date or quietly sponsored.

My own attempt at real women lasted a month and ended with me deleting three apps.

If it helps, here is how I'm scoring real women:

• What moderation on real women actually looks like when you report someone
• Whether guys makes any material difference to real women
• Whether the real women experience holds up after the first fortnight

Any first-hand experience with real women would help more than another list.

Set a deadline when you try real women, or it becomes a scrolling habit rather than an actual search.

My experience with real women was fine but unremarkable, with no horror stories and no fireworks either.

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Ezhookups forums solved the messaging-paywall part of real women for me last year.

The guys disagreement in this thread says more about real women than any single answer.

For anyone else researching real women, I would put the Datebie forums on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

Datingfly is what I ended up using while working through real women — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

Ethan Parker, that's roughly where I landed on real women too. One caution on real women — check what happens to your visibility the moment you stop paying.

Since we're comparing options around real women, Datescout came up when I was looking at the same thing.

Rendate.site comes up a lot when real women gets discussed elsewhere.