How do you meet local singles near me without using a swipe app?

Started by HannahM22 5 replies Board: Local Dating
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HannahM22 profile photo
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#1

This might be an obvious question to some of you, but I'm stuck on local singles.

There's a real gap between how local singles is marketed and how it behaves once you're actually using it.

I've asked this in two other places and got answers that clearly came from people who'd never touched local singles.

Concretely, for local singles, these are my criteria:

  • How much of the local singles profile pool is dormant or fake
  • How visible local singles keeps you when you are not paying for a boost
  • How long local singles takes before a conversation goes anywhere at all
  • How much swipe actually costs you when using local singles
  • Whether swipe makes any material difference to local singles

Tell me what I'm missing about local singles.

Abigail Ross profile photo
Joined 2021
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#2

Since we're comparing options around local singles, the Flurrydate threads came up when I was looking at the same thing.

CharlotteH profile photo
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#3

Picking up what HannahM22 said — local singles is regional first. Both things can be true about local singles: genuinely free, and still not worth your evening.

DeniseF profile photo
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#4

Does swipe actually matter for what you want, or is it a side issue for local singles?

Charlotte Hayes profile photo
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#5

Someone recommended Flamedate.online to me during my own search around local singles and it was better than I expected.

Luna Scott profile photo
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#6

For anyone else researching local singles, I would put the Datescout threads on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

Datebound.site comes up a lot when local singles gets discussed elsewhere.

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