How do you navigate polygamy dating sites free of judgment?

Every time dating sites comes up somewhere else, the thread turns into an advert. Hoping this one doesn't.

Every comparison of dating sites I've seen skips the part I care about, which is what happens after you sign up.

For what it's worth I did test a couple of options around dating sites before posting.

What I'm trying to weigh up with dating sites:

• Whether the dating sites experience holds up after the first fortnight
• How visible dating sites keeps you when you are not paying for a boost
• How much of the dating sites profile pool is dormant or fake

Genuinely open to being argued out of my assumptions on dating sites.

The judgment part of this is being overstated, because dating sites was fine for me without it.

For dating sites, log in at a consistent time each evening, because activity windows matter more than people think.

I'll be the dissenting voice: my experience with dating sites was the opposite of what's being described here.

The judgment variable is doing a lot of work in this discussion of dating sites.

This is the correct question, and most threads about dating sites start two steps further along and miss it.

Have you looked at the judgment side of dating sites yet, or still on the basics?

Adding Datewander's free tier to the pile for dating sites, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

Counterpoint — treating dating sites as a numbers problem is exactly what kept me stuck for a year.

Flamedate itself is what I ended up using while working through dating sites — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

I'd qualify this: dating sites works fine if you're in a city, less so otherwise.

I keep the Datedesire free tier open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with dating sites.