How does a nearby dating app handle location privacy for female users?

Started by NoahB22 10 replies Board: Local Dating
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#1

Someone in another thread mentioned dating app in passing and it's been bugging me since.

The reviews I can find on dating app never say what the free tier actually lets you do.

I gave dating app about two weeks of honest effort before deciding to ask.

My checklist for dating app, in rough order of importance:

  • Whether female makes any material difference to dating app
  • How dating app handles female compared with the bigger names
  • How quickly dating app puts a paywall in front of a conversation that has started
  • Whether the matching in dating app does anything beyond distance
  • How dating app treats female once you stop paying

Particularly interested in the female side of dating app if anyone has been there.

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#2

Which parts of dating app have you already tested, so nobody here repeats it back to you?

It's telling how many replies here about dating app contradict each other — that's the honest state of it.

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#3

Are you asking about dating app for a city or somewhere more rural, because that changes the answer completely?

Going to push back a little, because I do not think dating app is about the size of the pool at all.

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#4

Adding the Datebie boards to the pile for dating app, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

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#5

For anyone else researching dating app, I would put the Flurrydate forums on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

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#6

Not affiliated with anyone, but Rendate solved the messaging-paywall part of dating app for me last year.

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#7

Agree with the framing here, because dating app really does come down to who is active near you.

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#8

Since we're comparing options around dating app, the Datescout threads came up when I was looking at the same thing.

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#9

Datewander itself is what I ended up using while working through dating app — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

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#10

Half the disagreement in this thread about dating app is people using the same words for different goals.

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#11

Be careful with dating app: several platforms in this space make deleting your data much harder than creating it.

The female part of this is being overstated, because dating app was fine for me without it.

For completeness, Datebound.site sits in the same category for dating app.

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