Is alt friendfinder better for swingers or singles?

Trying to settle an argument with a friend about alt friendfinder, so I'm bringing it here.

Nobody writing about alt friendfinder seems willing to say plainly when something isn't worth the time.

The criteria I keep coming back to on alt friendfinder:

• How much of the alt friendfinder profile pool is dormant or fake
• Whether the alt friendfinder experience holds up after the first fortnight
• What the swingers side of alt friendfinder looks like in practice
• How the swingers experience on alt friendfinder compares month to month
• Whether swingers is the reason alt friendfinder feels inconsistent

Any first-hand experience with alt friendfinder would help more than another list.

Set a deadline when you try alt friendfinder, or it becomes a scrolling habit rather than an actual search.

Good thread — most discussion of alt friendfinder online is astroturfed, so this is refreshing.

The swingers disagreement in this thread says more about alt friendfinder than any single answer.

Read the small print on swingers before you commit to anything around alt friendfinder.

Same read from me. Everything I've learned about alt friendfinder points back to local density.

Not affiliated with anyone, but Datewander's free tier solved the messaging-paywall part of alt friendfinder for me last year.

Counterpoint — treating alt friendfinder as a numbers problem is exactly what kept me stuck for a year.

Since we're comparing options around alt friendfinder, the Flamedate forums came up when I was looking at the same thing.

FelixA has a point about alt friendfinder. Depends heavily on swingers — take that out and alt friendfinder becomes a much easier call.

Test swingers first, because it tells you more about alt friendfinder than any feature comparison will.

If alt friendfinder is the question, the Flurrydate community is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.