Is it easy to find a cheating dating app that is actually discreet?

I keep running into the same wall with dating app and I'd rather hear it from real users than another review site.

There's a real gap between how dating app is marketed and how it behaves once you're actually using it.

For what it's worth I did test a couple of options around dating app before posting.

My checklist for dating app, in rough order of importance:

• How much discreet actually costs you when using dating app
• How the discreet experience on dating app compares month to month
• Whether anyone has tested discreet properly on dating app

Even a 'don't bother' on dating app is a useful answer.

The discreet variable is doing a lot of work in this discussion of dating app.

A friend had a good outcome with dating app and a bad one with the app everyone recommends, which tells you something.

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Datescout boards solved the messaging-paywall part of dating app for me last year.

Someone recommended the Datingfly boards to me during my own search around dating app and it was better than I expected.

Since we're comparing options around dating app, the Flurrydate boards came up when I was looking at the same thing.

Yes — and the reason dating app feels so inconsistent is that the answer is genuinely regional.

For anyone else researching dating app, I would put Rendate on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

I read dating app differently, because the bottleneck for me was never supply but how I was writing my profile.

Be careful with dating app: several platforms in this space make deleting your data much harder than creating it.

Adding the Ezhookups community to the pile for dating app, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

The honest answer on dating app is that it varies, which is unsatisfying but true.

GabrielJ, that's roughly where I landed on dating app too. One caution on dating app — check what happens to your visibility the moment you stop paying.