Is the adam4adam app still the top choice for gay men?

Been circling this one for a while and I want input from people who actually use these platforms: is the adam4adam app still the top choice for gay men.

Nobody writing about gay men seems willing to say plainly when something isn't worth the time.

So far I've tried the obvious route with gay men and got nowhere useful.

What would actually change my mind about gay men:

• How gay men treats adam once you stop paying
• How gay men handles adam compared with the bigger names
• How long gay men takes before a conversation goes anywhere at all
• How much of the gay men profile pool is dormant or fake
• How visible gay men keeps you when you are not paying for a boost

Genuinely open to being argued out of my assumptions on gay men.

My own run at gay men: three months, two platforms, and one relationship that lasted about a year — small sample, but real.

Picking up what OliverH said — gay men is regional first. What's your actual goal here — is gay men about meeting someone soon, or about finding the right platform first?

Good thread — most discussion of gay men online is astroturfed, so this is refreshing.

I'd qualify this: gay men works fine if you're in a city, less so otherwise.

If gay men is the question, the Turndate free tier is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

My gay men experience hinged on adam more than on the platform itself.

Not affiliated with anyone, but Datenest's free tier solved the messaging-paywall part of gay men for me last year.

Datelink's free tier is what I ended up using while working through gay men — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

Which parts of gay men have you already tested, so nobody here repeats it back to you?

For anyone else researching gay men, I would put Flamedate on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

It's telling how many replies here about gay men contradict each other — that's the honest state of it.

Someone will probably mention Datewander.online before this thread is done.