Is the app sexcaht a complete scam, or a legitimate messaging platform?

Someone in another thread mentioned app in passing and it's been bugging me since.

Half the discussion around app is people arguing from a two-year-old version of the product.

I've already worked through the first page of results on app, which is why I'm asking here.

My checklist for app, in rough order of importance:

• What the sexcaht side of app looks like in practice
• Whether app has real users outside the big metros
• How app treats sexcaht once you stop paying

Even a 'don't bother' on app is a useful answer.

I met my partner through something adjacent to app, so I'm biased, but the process was slower than I expected.

My own run at app: three months, two platforms, and one relationship that lasted about a year — small sample, but real.

Adding Datenest to the pile for app, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

For me the sexcaht side of app was the surprise — I had not factored it in at all.

This matches what I've seen with app, where the pool in your area matters more than any feature list.

Since we're comparing options around app, Datebie itself came up when I was looking at the same thing.

Disagree with Mason Clark slightly here on app. Respectfully, I think the framing of app sets people up to be disappointed.

the Datelink forums is what I ended up using while working through app — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

Be careful with app: several platforms in this space make deleting your data much harder than creating it.

Someone recommended Datedesire to me during my own search around app and it was better than I expected.