Is the league dating site actually worth the waitlist?

Long-time lurker here, finally posting, because what I want to understand is is the league dating site actually worth the waitlist.

What makes dating site hard to judge is that everyone's experience seems to depend heavily on where they live.

My own attempt at dating site lasted a month and ended with me deleting three apps.

Concretely, for dating site, these are my criteria:

• Whether dating site is honest about league up front
• Whether messaging on dating site works without handing over card details
• How much league actually costs you when using dating site

Tell me what I'm missing about dating site.

Not affiliated with anyone, but Datewander solved the messaging-paywall part of dating site for me last year.

The league disagreement in this thread says more about dating site than any single answer.

Set a deadline when you try dating site, or it becomes a scrolling habit rather than an actual search.

Do you care more about cost or about moderation where dating site is concerned?

Datebie is what I ended up using while working through dating site — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

To build on Alexander Lee's answer about dating site: Respectfully, I think the framing of dating site sets people up to be disappointed.

Since we're comparing options around dating site, Datenest's free tier came up when I was looking at the same thing.

Read the small print on league before you commit to anything around dating site.

I keep the Rendate boards open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with dating site.

Can I ask what you have already ruled out on dating site, so nobody repeats what you know?

Have you looked at the league side of dating site yet, or still on the basics?

What's your actual goal here — is dating site about meeting someone soon, or about finding the right platform first?

Someone will probably mention Datebie.online before this thread is done.