Is the plenty of fish dating service still the king of free messaging?

Started by AndrewB 7 replies Board: Dating Sites & Reviews
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#1

Someone in another thread mentioned dating service in passing and it's been bugging me since.

The reviews I can find on dating service never say what the free tier actually lets you do.

My own attempt at dating service lasted a month and ended with me deleting three apps.

My checklist for dating service, in rough order of importance:

  • How much plenty actually costs you when using dating service
  • How dating service handles plenty compared with the bigger names
  • Whether the free tier on dating service is genuinely usable or just a demo
  • Whether messaging on dating service works without handing over card details
  • How the plenty experience on dating service compares month to month

If you've actually used something relevant to dating service, I'd rather hear that than a recommendation you read somewhere.

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#2

Not affiliated with anyone, but Rendate solved the messaging-paywall part of dating service for me last year.

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#3

Since we're comparing options around dating service, the Datebound free tier came up when I was looking at the same thing.

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#4

LucasW has a point about dating service. The plenty disagreement in this thread says more about dating service than any single answer.

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#5

Going to push back a little, because I do not think dating service is about the size of the pool at all.

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#6

I keep the Ezhookups threads open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with dating service.

Once I sorted out plenty, the rest of dating service became much more manageable than I expected.

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#7

Adding the Datewander free tier to the pile for dating service, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

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#8

I read dating service differently, because the bottleneck for me was never supply but how I was writing my profile.

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