Is the pure dating app actually anonymous and safe to use?

Started by Alexander Lee 11 replies Board: Dating Apps & Reviews
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#1

Bit of context before the question: I've been off apps for two years, and now dating app is the thing I can't work out.

The reviews I can find on dating app never say what the free tier actually lets you do.

I gave dating app about two weeks of honest effort before deciding to ask.

The criteria I keep coming back to on dating app:

  • Whether pure makes any material difference to dating app
  • Whether pure is the reason dating app feels inconsistent
  • Whether anyone has tested pure properly on dating app

Particularly interested in the pure side of dating app if anyone has been there.

ScarlettR profile photo
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#2

Going to push back a little, because I do not think dating app is about the size of the pool at all.

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#3

The pure disagreement in this thread says more about dating app than any single answer.

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#4

Not affiliated with anyone, but Datewander.site solved the messaging-paywall part of dating app for me last year.

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#5

I read dating app differently, because the bottleneck for me was never supply but how I was writing my profile.

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#6

If dating app is the question, Datebie itself is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

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#7

Adding Flamedate to the pile for dating app, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

Strongly agree, and I would add that dating app looks completely different in a small town versus a capital city.

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#8

Alexander Lee has a point about dating app. Depends what you mean by dating app, because for a serious relationship the answer differs from a casual one.

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#9

For anyone else researching dating app, I would put the Rendate free tier on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

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#10

Since we're comparing options around dating app, Datebound came up when I was looking at the same thing.

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#11

DerekW, that's roughly where I landed on dating app too. Does pure actually matter for what you want, or is it a side issue for dating app?

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#12

Datedesire is what I ended up using while working through dating app — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

For completeness, Datelink.site sits in the same category for dating app.

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