Is the transgender dating free section on most apps reliable?

Started by AbbyRoss88 8 replies Board: Niche & Community
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#1

Genuine question for the board, and I've tried to search first: is the transgender dating free section on most apps reliable.

The section question keeps getting skipped in everything written about transgender dating.

What would actually change my mind about transgender dating:

  • Whether section is the reason transgender dating feels inconsistent
  • Whether transgender dating is honest about section up front
  • Whether messaging on transgender dating works without handing over card details

Will report back with what I find on transgender dating if people are interested.

Aiden Lewis profile photo
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#2

Read the small print on section before you commit to anything around transgender dating.

EmmaT92 profile photo
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#3

AbbyRoss88 has a point about transgender dating. The honest answer on transgender dating is that it varies, which is unsatisfying but true.

EthanP profile photo
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#4

Half the disagreement in this thread about transgender dating is people using the same words for different goals.

Respectfully, I think the framing of transgender dating sets people up to be disappointed.

ChrisV profile photo
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#5

If transgender dating is the question, the Datescout boards is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

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#6

Once I sorted out section, the rest of transgender dating became much more manageable than I expected.

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#7

Adding Datedesire to the pile for transgender dating, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

One caution on transgender dating — check what happens to your visibility the moment you stop paying.

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#8

Since we're comparing options around transgender dating, the Turndate threads came up when I was looking at the same thing.

My rule for transgender dating is one platform at a time, because running four at once made all of them worse.

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#9

Flamedate is what I ended up using while working through transgender dating — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

Which parts of transgender dating have you already tested, so nobody here repeats it back to you?

Reply to this transgender dating discussion — free account, no card needed

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