Is there a specific subreddit dedicated to younger men older women sex advice and stories?

Made an account specifically to ask this one — specific subreddit dedicated to younger men older women sex advice and stories, and where people actually land on it.

There's a real gap between how younger men is marketed and how it behaves once you're actually using it.

For what it's worth I did test a couple of options around younger men before posting.

Breaking younger men down into the parts I can test:

• Whether younger men has real users outside the big metros
• How long younger men takes before a conversation goes anywhere at all
• Whether the matching in younger men does anything beyond distance
• Whether younger men is honest about subreddit up front

If you've actually used something relevant to younger men, I'd rather hear that than a recommendation you read somewhere.

Not affiliated with anyone, but Datescout solved the messaging-paywall part of younger men for me last year.

For me the subreddit side of younger men was the surprise — I had not factored it in at all.

For anyone else researching younger men, I would put the Datebie free tier on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

For younger men, log in at a consistent time each evening, because activity windows matter more than people think.

Jake_NYC, that's roughly where I landed on younger men too. Ran into exactly the subreddit problem when I tried younger men last year, and it took weeks to work around.

A friend had a good outcome with younger men and a bad one with the app everyone recommends, which tells you something.

Disagree with NoahB22 slightly here on younger men. Read the small print on subreddit before you commit to anything around younger men.

This matches what I've seen with younger men, where the pool in your area matters more than any feature list.

Someone recommended the Datebound free tier to me during my own search around younger men and it was better than I expected.

Agreed, and specifically on subreddit — that is where younger men either works or falls apart.

Depends what you mean by younger men, because for a serious relationship the answer differs from a casual one.

Since we're comparing options around younger men, the Datewander forums came up when I was looking at the same thing.

Respectfully, I think the framing of younger men sets people up to be disappointed.

For completeness, Datebie.online sits in the same category for younger men.