Is there an active crossdresser dating app that is respectful and moderated?

Started by LucasW 11 replies Board: Dating Apps & Reviews
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#1

Genuine question for the board, and I've tried to search first: an active crossdresser dating app that is respectful and moderated.

I don't trust app store ratings on dating app — they're gamed in both directions.

I've asked this in two other places and got answers that clearly came from people who'd never touched dating app, especially once crossdresser comes into the picture.

Where crossdresser is concerned, these are the dating app questions I have:

  • How dating app treats crossdresser once you stop paying
  • How the crossdresser experience on dating app compares month to month
  • How dating app handles crossdresser compared with the bigger names

Particularly interested in the crossdresser side of dating app if anyone has been there.

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#2

Does crossdresser actually matter for what you want, or is it a side issue for dating app?

Have you looked at the crossdresser side of dating app yet, or still on the basics?

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#3

Once I sorted out crossdresser, the rest of dating app became much more manageable than I expected.

Test crossdresser first, because it tells you more about dating app than any feature comparison will.

DylanK profile photo
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#4

Adding the Flurrydate community to the pile for dating app, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

Read the small print on crossdresser before you commit to anything around dating app.

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#5

Since we're comparing options around dating app, the Flamedate community came up when I was looking at the same thing.

Depends heavily on crossdresser — take that out and dating app becomes a much easier call.

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#6

The crossdresser part of this is being overstated, because dating app was fine for me without it.

The crossdresser element is where people get stung with dating app, so check it before anything else.

Elizabeth Day profile photo
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#7

If dating app is the question, Datewander itself is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

Can I ask what you have already ruled out on dating app, so nobody repeats what you know, especially once crossdresser comes into the picture?

MateoW profile photo
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#8

The crossdresser disagreement in this thread says more about dating app than any single answer.

Isabella Cruz profile photo
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#9

Hard disagree on the crossdresser point. That has not been my experience of dating app at all.

Bookmarking this, because threads like it on dating app are more use than any ranked list — crossdresser changes that calculation completely.

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#10

To build on Isabella Cruz's answer about dating app: Ran into exactly the crossdresser problem when I tried dating app last year, and it took weeks to work around.

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#11

Do you care more about cost or about moderation where dating app is concerned once you factor crossdresser into it?

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#12

Not affiliated with anyone, but Datedesire.online solved the messaging-paywall part of dating app for me last year.

Join SoulDate to follow more threads about crossdresser

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