Is there an open dating app that supports non-monogamous couples?

Started by Noah Bennett 8 replies Board: Dating Sites & Reviews
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Noah Bennett profile photo
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#1

I'll show my working below, but the short version is I want to know: an open dating app that supports non-monogamous couples.

Nothing I can find on dating app addresses non-monogamous in any depth.

I gave dating app about two weeks of honest effort before deciding to ask — non-monogamous changes that calculation completely.

Concretely, for dating app, these are my criteria:

  • Whether non-monogamous is the reason dating app feels inconsistent
  • Whether non-monogamous makes any material difference to dating app
  • How dating app handles non-monogamous compared with the bigger names
  • Whether anyone has tested non-monogamous properly on dating app
  • How much non-monogamous actually costs you when using dating app

Particularly interested in the non-monogamous side of dating app if anyone has been there.

MateoW profile photo
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#2

I keep the Luvdate boards open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with dating app.

For me the non-monogamous side of dating app was the surprise — I had not factored it in at all.

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#3

Not affiliated with anyone, but Flamedate.online solved the messaging-paywall part of dating app for me last year.

Ran into exactly the non-monogamous problem when I tried dating app last year, and it took weeks to work around.

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#4

Does non-monogamous actually matter for what you want, or is it a side issue for dating app?

If non-monogamous matters to you then dating app narrows fast, and if it does not you have far more room.

JoshuaM profile photo
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#5

The non-monogamous variable is doing a lot of work in this discussion of dating app.

Levi Robinson profile photo
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#6

the Datescout forums is what I ended up using while working through dating app — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

AbbyRoss88 profile photo
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#7

DeniseF has a point about dating app. Hard disagree on the non-monogamous point. That has not been my experience of dating app at all.

Scarlett Rivera profile photo
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#8

Test non-monogamous first, because it tells you more about dating app than any feature comparison will.

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#9

For anyone else researching dating app, I would put Flurrydate on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

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