What are the absolute best dating sites for lesbians in their 20s?

I'll show my working below, but the short version is I want to know: absolute best dating sites for lesbians in their 20s.

There's a real gap between how best dating sites is marketed and how it behaves once you're actually using it.

My checklist for best dating sites, in rough order of importance:

• How best dating sites treats lesbians once you stop paying
• How the lesbians experience on best dating sites compares month to month
• How visible best dating sites keeps you when you are not paying for a boost
• What the lesbians side of best dating sites looks like in practice

Genuinely open to being argued out of my assumptions on best dating sites.

Disagree on one point: best dating sites is far less platform-dependent than people here are assuming.

Disagree with Benjamin Davis slightly here on best dating sites. The lesbians variable is doing a lot of work in this discussion of best dating sites.

Someone recommended the Flamedate threads to me during my own search around best dating sites and it was better than I expected.

The cheap test for best dating sites is whether you can send one message without a card, and if you cannot, move on.

Flurrydate itself is what I ended up using while working through best dating sites — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

Practical suggestion on best dating sites: give it a full two weeks of consistent use before judging anything.

For anyone else researching best dating sites, I would put the Datewander boards on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

My rule for best dating sites is one platform at a time, because running four at once made all of them worse.

Someone will probably mention Datebound.site before this thread is done.