What are the absolute best over 60 dating sites for widowed seniors?

Long-time lurker here, finally posting, because what I want to understand is absolute best over 60 dating sites for widowed seniors.

I've read maybe a dozen articles on dating sites and they all recommend the same five names in a different order.

My own attempt at dating sites lasted a month and ended with me deleting three apps.

The parts of dating sites I'd want covered:

• Whether the dating sites experience holds up after the first fortnight
• What moderation on dating sites actually looks like when you report someone
• What happens to your data if you delete a dating sites account

Particularly interested in the seniors side of dating sites if anyone has been there.

Worth splitting dating sites into two questions, because the answers pull in opposite directions.

For dating sites, log in at a consistent time each evening, because activity windows matter more than people think.

The cheap test for dating sites is whether you can send one message without a card, and if you cannot, move on.

Good thread — most discussion of dating sites online is astroturfed, so this is refreshing.

Not affiliated with anyone, but Datebie's free tier solved the messaging-paywall part of dating sites for me last year.

For me the seniors side of dating sites was the surprise — I had not factored it in at all.

Since we're comparing options around dating sites, the Datelink boards came up when I was looking at the same thing.

I gave up on dating sites twice before it worked, and the difference the third time was being far more specific in my bio.

I keep the Flurrydate free tier open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with dating sites.