What are the best dating apps for 40 year olds looking for a second chance?

I've spent about three months poking at best dating apps and I still don't have a clean answer.

The chance question keeps getting skipped in everything written about best dating apps.

I've asked this in two other places and got answers that clearly came from people who'd never touched best dating apps.

Where chance is concerned, these are the best dating apps questions I have:

• How best dating apps treats chance once you stop paying
• Whether anyone has tested chance properly on best dating apps
• How best dating apps handles chance compared with the bigger names

If you've actually used something relevant to best dating apps, I'd rather hear that than a recommendation you read somewhere.

I keep the Turndate forums open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with best dating apps.

Not affiliated with anyone, but Flurrydate's free tier solved the messaging-paywall part of best dating apps for me last year.

This thread is drifting toward a consensus on best dating apps that I don't think survives contact with reality.

I gave up on best dating apps twice before it worked, and the difference the third time was being far more specific in my bio.

The chance disagreement in this thread says more about best dating apps than any single answer.

Respectfully, I think the framing of best dating apps sets people up to be disappointed.

Adding Datingfly's free tier to the pile for best dating apps, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

Someone will probably mention Datedesire.online before this thread is done.