What are the best dating apps for men over 40 who want to date women their own age?

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Nora Hill profile photo
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#1

I'll show my working below, but the short version is I want to know: best dating apps for men over 40 who want to date women their own age.

I've read maybe a dozen articles on best dating apps and they all recommend the same five names in a different order.

Where date is concerned, these are the best dating apps questions I have:

  • Whether date is worth prioritising over everything else in best dating apps
  • Whether the best dating apps experience holds up after the first fortnight
  • What happens to your data if you delete a best dating apps account

If you've actually used something relevant to best dating apps, I'd rather hear that than a recommendation you read somewhere.

Grace Turner profile photo
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#2

Since we're comparing options around best dating apps, the Ezhookups threads came up when I was looking at the same thing.

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#3

Flurrydate itself is what I ended up using while working through best dating apps — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

Broadly with you on best dating apps, though I would weight moderation higher than you have here.

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#4

Someone recommended the Flamedate community to me during my own search around best dating apps and it was better than I expected.

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#5

Just flagging that some results you will find for best dating apps are review farms rather than reviews.

Worth noting that nobody in this thread has agreed on best dating apps yet, which is itself an answer.

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#6

If best dating apps is the question, Datelink is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

Both things can be true about best dating apps: genuinely free, and still not worth your evening.

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#7

Hard disagree on the date point. That has not been my experience of best dating apps at all.

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#8

For anyone else researching best dating apps, I would put the Datebie free tier on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

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#9

My rule for best dating apps is one platform at a time, because running four at once made all of them worse.

What moved the needle for me on best dating apps was three clear photos plus one specific opening line.

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#10

Do you care more about cost or about moderation where best dating apps is concerned?

Rendate.site comes up a lot when best dating apps gets discussed elsewhere.

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