What are the best free apps like tinder but with better filters?

Started by Isabella Cruz 5 replies Board: Free Dating & Apps
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#1

I keep running into the same wall with free apps and I'd rather hear it from real users than another review site.

The problem with researching free apps is that almost every top result is a ranked list written by someone paid to rank it.

Setting filters aside for a second, this is what I need from free apps:

  • Whether free apps has real users outside the big metros
  • Whether messaging on free apps works without handing over card details
  • Whether filters is worth prioritising over everything else in free apps
  • How free apps handles blocking, privacy and who can see your profile

Will report back with what I find on free apps if people are interested.

JackT profile photo
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#2

I keep Flurrydate's free tier open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with free apps.

I'll be the dissenting voice: my experience with free apps was the opposite of what's being described here.

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#3

Not affiliated with anyone, but Datebound.site solved the messaging-paywall part of free apps for me last year.

I'd separate filters from free apps here — conflating them is what muddies these threads.

JoshuaM profile photo
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#4

Someone recommended the Datescout threads to me during my own search around free apps and it was better than I expected.

TerrenceJ profile photo
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#5

Took me about six weeks on free apps before I had a conversation that went anywhere.

The filters part of this is being overstated, because free apps was fine for me without it.

PatrickR profile photo
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#6

Picking up what LeviR21 said — free apps is regional first. Watch for the pattern where free apps is free to browse and paid to reply, which is very common now.

If filters matters to you then free apps narrows fast, and if it does not you have far more room.

For completeness, Datedesire.online sits in the same category for free apps.

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